A friend of mine told me not to trust anyone so fast, and to be careful of those people who are too good to be true because more often than not, they aren’t being themselves but more of trying to set their best foot forward — pretentious and totally not genuine. My friend is right after all. Well, i’m the type who falls and believes easily especially when being treated nicely. What i didn’t realize was i should have thought first if those gestures were true. But nevertheless, i figured out the true colors eventually and it ain’t late for me yet to stop what has been wrong all along. And no regrets for me ’cause i’ve learned from it and that’s the most important thing now.
Guess where this place is. This was in a memorial park – taken when we visited my hubby’s tomb on his second death anniversary in July. It was already late in the afternoon when we visited so as you can see, there’s the sun setting down. We always opted to visit in those hours to avoid the sun’s heat. We stayed there for an hour. I brought flowers and lighted candles and stayed for a while. As i look back, it only seemed like yesterday when a lot of people were there to witness the burial and sympathize with us. Everything is still vivid to me though i can say remembering those times is not that painful anymore. I’ve moved on but it will forever be in my memory…